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How to set disappearing messages on WhatsApp for all contacts?

WhatsApp is one of the most popular messaging apps, allowing users to communicate with contacts all over the world. One useful feature is the ability to set disappearing messages, making sent messages automatically delete after a set amount of time. This can be useful for privacy or just keeping chats clutter-free.

By default, WhatsApp does not enable disappearing messages for all chats. Instead, it must be turned on manually for each individual chat or contact. However, there is a way to enable disappearing messages by default for all chats using WhatsApp’s default message timer setting.

What are disappearing messages?

Disappearing messages, also known as expiring messages, are a privacy feature that causes messages to automatically be deleted after a certain amount of time. Once enabled, any messages sent in that chat will be deleted after the chosen duration passes.

The amount of time can be set from as short as 5 seconds to as long as 7 days. Once the duration has passed, the message will be deleted for both the sender and recipient. This can help keep chat history short and ephemeral.

Even if recipients have seen the message, it will still be deleted from the chat after expiration. However, any saved media will not be deleted. Also, messages quoted in replies may remain visible. But the original disappearing message will be replaced by “This message was deleted.”

Why use disappearing messages?

There are several benefits to using disappearing messages:

  • Improved privacy – Sensitive messages will not remain in the chat history.
  • Reduced clutter – Old messages will automatically clean up over time.
  • More secure chats – Especially useful for discussing confidential topics.
  • Fun, ephemeral sharing – Creates a more temporary, intimate feeling.
  • Focus on present conversations – Rather than getting distracted in old chats.

The temporary nature encourages more open, honest conversations that will not stick around indefinitely. It’s also helpful for planning surprise parties or gifts without leaving evidence behind!

How to enable disappearing messages for a single chat

To start using disappearing messages for just a specific chat or contact:

  1. Open the WhatsApp chat with the contact or group you want to enable this for.
  2. Tap on their name at the top to open contact info.
  3. Tap Disappearing messages.
  4. Select a duration or tap Continue if already selected.
  5. Tap OK to confirm.

That contact’s messages will now automatically disappear after the chosen duration. You can adjust or disable this any time from the same Disappearing messages menu.

How to set disappearing messages as the default

While enabling disappearing messages chat-by-chat gives you more control, setting it as the default is easier if you want it across all chats:

  1. Open WhatsApp Settings.
  2. Go to Account > Privacy.
  3. Tap Default message timer.
  4. Pick a duration or Continue if already set.
  5. Tap OK to save.

This sets the default expiration for new chats going forward. Existing chats will remain unchanged until you manually enable disappearing messages for each.

Customizing disappearing message settings

Once enabled, there are a few additional options to customize your disappearing messages experience:

Changing the default timer

You can return to the Default message timer menu anytime to adjust the expiration duration. All new chats will use the newly chosen default.

Setting exceptions

While default message timer is on, you can make exceptions for specific contacts. Open their chat settings and choose a different expiration or turn disappearing messages off.

Disappearing media

By default, any photos, videos, or other media sent in disappearing chats will remain after the message expires. To delete media after expiration as well:

  1. Go to Settings > Account > Privacy.
  2. Tap Default message timer.
  3. Enable Disappearing media.

Manage active disappearing messages

To see which chats currently have disappearing messages enabled and when they are scheduled to expire:

  1. Go to Settings > Account > Privacy.
  2. Tap Disappearing messages.

From here you can view, extend, or disable any active message timers.

Troubleshooting disappearing messages

If you are having issues with disappearing messages on WhatsApp, here are some steps to resolve common problems:

Messages not disappearing

  • Confirm disappearing messages are enabled for the chat.
  • Check the timer is set to a short enough duration.
  • Messages may not delete if frequently quoted in replies.
  • Restart the app and check messages expire as expected.

Deleted media remains

  • Enable disappearing media in settings to remove saved media when messages expire.
  • Manually delete any media you want removed immediately.

Disappearing messages turned off

  • Go to the chat settings and make sure disappearing messages are still enabled.
  • Check your default message timer is still set in settings.
  • The contact may have disabled disappearing messages for your chat specifically.

If issues continue, contact WhatsApp support for further help troubleshooting disappearing messages.

Conclusion

Disappearing messages are a useful privacy feature on WhatsApp. While it takes a few extra taps to enable, the ability to set an expiration by default makes ephemeral messaging much easier.

With default disappearing messages, you can ensure chats stay clutter-free and private without having to manage settings for every single contact. And you still have the flexibility to customize duration or disable for certain chats if needed.

So if you haven’t already taken advantage of WhatsApp’s disappearing messages, consider enabling it as a default to keep your messaging simple, tidy and secure.