There are a few ways you can find out if someone is checking you out on WhatsApp without directly asking them. While there’s no foolproof way to know for certain if someone is viewing your WhatsApp profile or stalking your messages, there are some clever tricks you can use to get an idea.
1. Check the ‘Last Seen’ status
One of the easiest ways to get an indication if someone has been checking you out on WhatsApp is to look at their ‘Last Seen’ status. Unless they have disabled it, you can see the last time they were actively using WhatsApp. If you notice it was very recent, chances are they could have been viewing your profile or chatting with you. Of course, this isn’t conclusive proof, but it’s a good starting point.
2. Note message read receipts
WhatsApp has message read receipts that show when your message has been opened. If you notice the other person is immediately reading your messages, it’s possible they are eager to know what you are up to and engaging with your chat. Again, not rock solid evidence, but a decent indicator.
3. Check typing indicators
WhatsApp shows when someone is typing a message to you. If you notice the typing indicator comes on when you are active on WhatsApp, but no message arrives, it could suggest they wanted to message but changed their mind. Again, not exactly solid proof, but can give clues someone is watching you.
4. Monitor online status
If you have a suspicion about someone checking on you, watch to see when they come online on WhatsApp. If they weren’t online all day, then suddenly come online briefly when you are active, it’s possible they wanted to check if you were around. They may have then gone offline quickly after seeing you active. This pattern over time can indicate interest.
5. Use a WhatsApp tracking app
There are apps you can download that connect with your WhatsApp account and notify you about certain activity. For example, they can let you know when specific contacts view your WhatsApp profile picture or about your online status. This takes the guess work out and gives clear evidence if someone is snooping. However, privacy is a concern with these apps.
6. Install WhatsApp on multiple devices
An effective trick is to install WhatsApp on a second phone or tablet, then leave yourself logged in. Now use your primary phone as normal. If you notice the second device shows the person you are monitoring coming online or other activity only when you are active, it’s likely they are keeping tabs on you.
7. Check shared media viewing receipts
If you’ve sent someone photos, videos or documents on WhatsApp, it shows read receipts just like with messages. If the person has been frequently checking out your shared media, they will show as having viewed it multiple times. This is a strong sign of interest in what you are sharing.
8. Notice changes to online status
Has the person you are monitoring suddenly changed their settings to hide their ‘Last Seen’ status from you? This could indicate they feel guilty about checking you constantly and want to hide their online activity from you.
9. Watch reply speed
People tend to reply quickly to those they are interested in hearing from. If the person seems to answer your WhatsApp messages faster than with other people, it can signify you are a priority and they want to engage with you.
10. See if they initiate contact
Someone who is proactively messaging you first on WhatsApp without you needing to reach out is a positive sign. It shows they are eager to strike up conversations with you and specifically want to talk to you more regularly.
11. Check your WhatsApp notifications settings
You can set WhatsApp to always notify you when certain contacts message you, even when Do Not Disturb is on. Check if the person you are monitoring is set with this priority notification. If so, it’s an excellent indication you are important to them.
12. Note profile photo changes
It’s common to update your profile picture when hoping to get a certain person’s attention. If you notice they change their profile photo after you’ve been interacting more, it can be a sign they want to look good for you.
13. Look for status updates directed at you
Someone posting WhatsApp Status updates specifically referencing inside jokes or interests you’ve discussed can indicate they have you on their mind and want your attention.
14. Check second device activity
As mentioned before, a great way to monitor WhatsApp activity from someone else is to install the app on a second device. Leave it running in the background and see if the person you are monitoring becomes active on it whenever you are around on your main device.
15. Notice if they mimic you
Someone who starts mirroring your behaviors could be interested in you. For example, changing their profile picture after you’ve changed yours or using emojis they don’t normally use but saw you use. This imitation is a subconscious desire to connect with you.
16. Watch Stories viewing patterns
Stories viewers are private on WhatsApp, but you can still make educated guesses. If someone views your Stories within minutes of you posting, they likely have notifications on for you. Frequent and early views of your Stories is a great sign of their interest.
17. See if they save your messages
You can’t directly tell if someone has saved your WhatsApp messages, but their behavior might indicate it. For example, referring back to old messages you’ve sent that would otherwise be hard to find. This shows they’ve saved your messages to revisit.
18. Look for increased 1-on-1 chatting
Someone who ramps up personal chat with you while reducing group chat contributions likely desires more intimate communication. This effort specifically to chat more 1-on-1 can reflect deeper interest.
19. Check chat frequency spikes
Frequency of chatting can be a good indicator of interest levels. Noticeable spikes where they suddenly start chatting with you more frequently can signal you’ve become more of a priority.
20. Monitor their friend requests
Don’t go overboard, but keeping an occasional eye on new WhatsApp contacts they add can be telling. If they are predominantly adding people of a specific gender, it can reveal who holds their interest.
21. Gauge reactions when unavailable
You can test their interest levels by being unavailable on WhatsApp for set periods. If they message repeatedly or ask where you’ve been, it shows eagerness for your chat. More nonchalance reflects less interest.
22. Look for hints during chat
Sometimes interest in you can be revealed in the chats themselves. Compliments about you, asking interested questions and expressing affinity for the same things can all be signs of a crush.
23. Check out their WhatsApp public profile
What someone displays on their public WhatsApp profile can provide clues about their interest. Things like relationship status, profile pic with you or quotes and emojis potentially related to you may be signs.
24. See if they send you memes and jokes
Someone thinking about you and wanting to stay on your mind may frequently send funny memes, videos and jokes related to your personality and sense of humor. This extra effort shows you’re a priority.
25. Notice if they mute groups to focus on you
If the person seems very active in certain WhatsApp groups but suddenly mutes all notifications from them, it can signify you’ve become their main chat focus and they want to avoid other distractions.
26. Watch for attempts to learn your schedule
Interested people will find subtle ways of figuring out your availability and daily schedules. If someone asks about your plans for upcoming days or weekends, they likely want to know the best times to chat.
27. See if they send good morning/night texts
Consistent good morning and good night messages are a classic sign of interest. These give them an easy excuse to be the first and last chat of your day as well as showing you’re frequently on their mind.
28. Check voicemail frequency
Voicemails require more effort than text messages. If someone suddenly starts leaving you a lot more WhatsApp voicemails where they previously stuck to only text, it can reveal a desire for more meaningful communication.
29. Look for caring check-in messages
Frequent check-ins asking how your day is going, well wishes if you mention being sick and sharing encouraging messages are all subtle signs someone cares about you and your wellbeing.
In summary, while there is no surefire way to know if someone is checking you out on WhatsApp, paying attention to the patterns of their communication and online activity can provide useful clues in many cases. With patience and the right techniques, you can gain good insights.